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February 27, 2018 By Carin Rockind Leave a Comment

Life Wasn’t Supposed to Be This Way…

“I feel stuck.”
“I’ve made a lot of choices to please others, instead of myself.”
“I want to feel again – all the feelings – joy passion, love.”
“I'm not living up to my potential, my dreams. Something got lost along the way.”
“Life just wasn't supposed to be this way.”

Have you ever said any of these things to yourself? I know I have.
I just finished my first 5 Day Purpose Course and these are just some of the comments that the women shared about why they were taking a course with me to live on purpose.

My heart sank with every comment because I've felt all of this. It was August of 2008 and I was staring at my computer screen, lost. I felt like such a fraud. Everyone thought I loved my job but I knew deep down that it wasn't for me. My whole life felt like a fraud. The city I lived in, the job I had, the relationship I was in.

But I didn't know how to move forward. I was too scared.

Then my friend, Sue, suggested her life coach. Sue was growing so much – she had so much confidence and was taking new risks. When I met her coach, I burst into tears. He was so gentle, so supportive, so encouraging about me and my purpose.

But when he offered to work with me, I said “no.” I felt guilty spending money on myself. I felt like I should be able to do it myself.

But a few weeks later, I was back to feeling like a fraud again. I wasn't moving forward. I needed help. So I called him again and with his support, I applied to graduate school, the first step on this journey to being your life purpose coach. I needed help to move forward.

We all do. At the end of the 5 Day Course, these same women said:
“So enlightening & having more clarity now that I never realized.”
“Feeling so inspired. So grateful for the wisdom, Carin.”
“I now believe in myself.”

I want you to believe in yourself and have clarity too. My deepest is desire is for you to live on purpose. I so badly want to inspire and empower millions of women to change their lives and go for their dreams that it sometimes hurts my heart.

Living on Purpose gives me the greatest joy I've ever known.
Living on Purpose fulfills my heart and soul and lets me leave a legacy.
Living on Purpose gives me freedom to travel the world (& be paid for it).
Living on Purpose makes me feel PROUD, COURAGEOUS, and BADASS!

I want you to live on purpose too.

As I've told you, it took being robbed at gunpoint to finally take steps toward pursuing my purpose. But with a coach's help, I realized that I'm worthy of my dreams. I'm worthing of feeling joy. I'm worthy of loving myself and making a huge impact on the world.

And so are you.

xo,

Carin

August 9, 2017 By Carin Rockind Leave a Comment

She Finally Feels Happy

“And one day she discovered that she was fierce, and strong, and full of fire, and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.” – Unknown

Have you ever had an experience so incredible that it was hard to put into words? An experience so beautiful and profound that it opened your heart and elevated your soul, but the English language is horribly insufficient for such awe?

That's how I feel about this past weekend.

This weekend, 25 loving, inspiring, courageous women joined me and Taylor Strecker for Goddess Girls Retreat, and our lives are forever changed.

Imagine feeling safe to share your deepest fears, most secret truths, and greatest hopes – things you haven’t even shared with close friends or family because you’re too afraid of their reaction – and receiving unconditional love, encouragement and support for it all – a hand on your back, someone passing you tissues, hearing that you’re going to be okay.

Imagine sharing your biggest dream – the one that seems silly and impossible and irresponsible – and hearing how AMAZING you’ll be at it!!

Imagine others seeing your truth – seeing your strength when you feel weak, seeing your sweetness when you feel judgmental, seeing your wisdom when you feel broken – and being loved for being yourself.

Imagine laughing for hours with friends for life as you run into the ocean with your clothes on, dance under the moon with abandon, and sip champagne by the pool.

Imagine the kind of sisterhood you’ve always wanted!

As one woman shared, “I've never made such deep friendships in one day before! I truly feel like they're sisters for life.”

Each woman was different – and the same. They had different stories, but similar hearts. One wants a divorce, another struggles with her daughter, and another is finding herself after her kids are out of the house, but under the fear, shame and guilt is the same beautiful spirit wanting to feel alive and free and happy again.

As one woman who lost her job and went through months of struggle shared, “I was driving home and just smiling. I realized I feel happy… just happy.”

You too have a Goddess within. Being a Goddess is being adored for who you are. It's walking with self-confidence, knowing and listening to your heart, and allowing yourself to pursue your desires. It's adoring yourself enough to put your heart first, knowing that when you take care of you, you better take care of others.

And they're already seeing changes in their lives – feeling more patient with kids, being more present at work, feeling confident to end an unhealthy relationship or to start a new career.

This level of growth is possible for you too. All it takes is an open heart, a hopeful spirit, and a supportive Sisterhood.

Something magical happens when women come together in openness, vulnerability, mutual support, and a desire to grow into the empowered women they were born to be. This kind of growth is ONLY possible in Sisterhood.

While Goddess Girls 2017 is over, you can still have this kind of sisterhood, support, love, and expansive soul growth this year. Beginning September 1, I'm launching the next EMPOWERED Sisterhood. EMPOWERED is my premier program for women who want to change their lives from the inside out. You will get clarity on who you are, you will remember your deepest desires, and you will claim your power to go after every dream in your heart. Click here for information and to register.

EMPOWERED is a 4 month journey to your soul's purpose. Through 2 retreats, weekly group calls, 1:1 support from me, and transformational workbooks, you will create a path to live the courageous joyful life you desire.

Jill, a recent EMPOWERED graduate from Illinois says, “Carin looked in my eyes… I wanted to look away, to hide, but she saw me… the real me, the me that I have spent most of my life hiding. She introduced me to an amazing group of women and encouraged me to see them and let them see me. Carin and my Empowered Sisters accept me, encourage me, support me….. they lift me up everyday, each in their own unique way. I accept them, encourage them, support them…. I lift them up everyday, in my own unique way. Imagine what is possible when you are no longer hiding…. when you are EMPOWERED!!!”

TZhe freedom you want is waiting for you. If this speaks to you, let's connect. I'd be honored to do a free 30 minute coaching call with you to determine your path forward and if EMPOWERED is for you. Contact me for a free call.

However, if this kind of Sisterhood speaks to you, you need to act quickly. I only have 3 spots left for EMPOWERED and they will go soon.

No matter what you do next, know that you are worthy of self-love and capable of every dream that you've buried. Know that you have a Goddess within and allow yourself the safe space and community to live it.

With so much love,
Carin

June 29, 2017 By Carin Rockind Leave a Comment

Living Fully Alive!

When is the last time you allowed yourself to feel totally and completely alive? To declare out loud what you want, even if others don't get it or support it? To dance when there's no music? To risk failing a big dream because your heart would never forgive you if you didn't at least try?

This is what my client did with me by going on an exclusive VIP retreat with me in Paris, and you can do it too. You don't have to come to Paris with me (though you'd love it), but you do need to take space away to get clear.

When the plane took off to Paris 2 weeks ago, I had no idea what to expect. I was meeting a client that I didn't know for a private exclusive retreat where we would be together in Paris for 5 days. I knew that we'd have fun going up the Eiffel Tower, eating fresh croissant, and seeing a live cabaret show, and I knew that our work together would be powerful, but I couldn't predict just how much she would spread her wings.

This was a scary proposition for us both. Together for 5 days? What if she didn't open up? What if it doesn't work?

But on Day 1 as we sat in a rose garden next to the Champs Elysees, devouring steaming hot crepes filled with nutella and caramel that dripped down our chins, we discovered her true purpose. She remembered when she's felt most alive in life, and committed to live that in her relationships, her work, her health – in every aspect of life.

Out of respect for her, I won't share the details of her purpose or desires or struggles, but I will share that throughout our VIP retreat, I witnessed her unfold, expand, and stand in her power with joy and grace.

As we meditated in the Tuileries Gardens, and then toured the Louvre, we created our own definition of beauty. One painting spoke “Empowered woman” to her; another, “JOY” to both of us, and as she stared at a sculpture for a long time, she declared, “Freedom.”

Each day I witnessed her own more and more of her true self. We practiced yoga in the gardens, elevated up the Eiffel Tower, celebrated life with champagne, and let our inner child play with paint in the very spot that Picasso and Renoir did. She faced her fears and bravely overcame them while declaring to fill her soul with JOY.

By the end of our retreat, she was clear on what she needs and EMPOWERED to go get it.

Plus we had the most incredible time having an all-dessert picnic along the Seine, savoring an all-souffle meal (what??!!), and indulging in the most delicious Guerlain perfume personalized with our names in GOLD!!!

This retreat reminded me why I do VIP retreats: They WORK! Spending a full day together away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life achieves this result. With whole days, we go deep into your purpose and move past your fears.

I want to do this for you. I dream about you dreaming big, stepping into your full power, and LIVING fully ALIVE.

You desperately want to write a book, but feel like no one would read it – I want to read it and show you all the people who do! You yearn to start a blog, but feel like the market is over-saturated, I want to show you why your voice is needed and get it going! You KNOW you'd make an amazing attorney but you're 55 and fear can you really do it now? YES! I'll cheerlead you all the way through final exams!

This private retreat was SO POWERFUL that I'm opening up 2 new ways to work with me this Summer:

1. VIP Exclusive Retreat: I'm opening space to host 3 people for exclusive 1:1 VIP retreats where you and I will get together for two fabulous nights and one powerful day to uncover your purpose and move past your doubts and fears. We'll get together in New Hope, PA, or a location of your desires, and we'll get clear on what you want and activate a plan to get it. We'll move past fears and cultivate your confidence so that you leave energized, activated and READY to take on the world! I'm only doing 3 of these, so reply now!
>>>>>Email me here to apply for one of these 3 spots to see if we're a fit to work together.

2. Paris and South of France 2018! I'm taking a small group of women to France next year so that you can experience this soul alteration! For the past several years I've taken women on my Purpose in Paris retreat, but now I'm SO OBSESSED with the South of France (newsletter on those gorgeous lavender fields and sun-filled Riviera coming soon), that I'll be taking women there, too! Purpose in Paris will start on June 24, 2018, we'll spend several days in Paris, and then we'll travel to the South of France on June 28 for the next retreat, which will end on July 2. You can do one of these retreats – or both, for a discount. Plus, if you reserve your spot byAugust 1, 2017 with a small deposit, you will get 2 bonus private coaching sessions with me THIS SUMMER so that you are ready for our journey next year (That's a $660 value). Plus, you can make payments over 12 months, and guarantee your place on these exclusive retreats!

>>>>>Email me here to apply for Paris and/or South of France 2018!

PLUS – there are 3 spots left for Goddess Girls Retreat with me and Taylor Strecker August 4 – 6 in Miami, Florida! Due to some unexpected events, a few spots opened up, but they will sell out, so if you're interested, email me or register here NOW!

Whatever you do, make time to get away from your routine and figure out what YOU really want in life.

Being away allows you to remove the barriers of can't/shouldn't/impossible and to answer the mother question: How Can I?

You weren't born to live with barriers. You were born to live fully. To know your heart's desires and soul's purpose and to create a life that allows you to live that. I'm not saying it's easy. But it is possible.

And if you want support doing it, email me. My work works. It brings out the truth of your hidden, secret desires. It melts the layers of shame and fear that you've been hiding behind. It allows you to not only see the truth of your soul's purpose, but to accept, embrace and embody it.

And again, if your heart is sparked by the idea of working together 1:1 or by coming on one of my powerful, transformative retreats, then take the first step and email me! No obligation – just exploration!

With so much love,

Au revoir,
Carin

PS – If you have FOMO on this elite retreat, email me to talk about your own Elite Retreat, and/or to get on the waitlist for my next retreat. They are fabulous and you don't want to miss this experience of a lifetime!

And get ready to be EMPOWERED!
If you KNOW you're READY for big change and you don't know exactly what you want, or how to do it, join my proven 4 month coaching program, EMPOWERED. You will gain clarity on who you are and what you want. You will identify your heart's desires and take action on them. You will finally shed the old layers of guilt, shame and fear that have held you back. And you'll do it all in Sistherhood – the best way to ensure that you move forward on your dreams! Past participants call EMPOWERED “The best decision of my life,” “Life-changing,” and say, “I”m a new woman!” Email me for more info, or click here to be among the first to know when the next program opens up! This program always sells out, and you won't want to miss this life-changing experience!

May 1, 2017 By Carin Rockind Leave a Comment

You CAN Be EMPOWERED, And You Deserve It!

Fill in the following sentences: “An Empowered Woman (or Man) is ____________. An Empowered Woman does __________. An Empowered Woman has ______________.”

Now look at your list – how are you measuring up to your own definition?

If you're like my clients who just graduated from my 4 month EMPOWERED program, you said things like:

An Empowered Woman follows her heart no matter what others say.
An Empowered Woman is confident and happy with her decisions.
An Empowered Woman has courage to say “Yes!” and “NO!”

When these women began the program in January, they were afraid they would never be the women they described.

One was afraid that her dreams would break her marriage apart. One had never been allowed to dream as a child, so she didn't even know what her heart wanted. Another was tired of being passed up for promotions, and another let fear keep her in a job she disliked for years.

I get it – I used to be the same way. I looked at women who were confident vibrant Goddesses, and I felt horribly envious. I wanted to be the one following my dreams. I wanted to be the one who was light and full of laughter.

I'm sure you get it too. So many of us – men and women – are afraid to be who we really are. You're afraid to stand in your full power because at some point, someone said you aren't good enough. Eventually we come to believe it.

So we spent the first part of EMPOWERED reconnecting with our TRUTH: The beauty, vibrancy, and gifts that lie deep down inside of us. I asked the women to share pictures of themselves as little girls – ages before they were told who they should and should not be. One woman saw how sad her younger self was. Another wanted to save her sweet younger self from the pain she was about to endure. One remembered that she was so independent that at 5, she faked going to a babysitter to show her mom that she could take care of herself!

We then spent a month peeling back the layers of shame, guilt, and fear that cover you up. One hid under the pain of being adopted, another being gay in a small southern town, another carried the shame of being disowned by family, another carried the guilt of a struggling marriage.

And then over coming months, they re-wrote their stories, they chose how they want to live their lives now, they wrote vows to themselves, and then they began taking action.

Oh my goodness, friend, these women are now on FIRE!

The one afraid that her dreams would break up her marriage? She spoke up to her husband and created a studio space for her dancing.
The one who wasn't allowed to dream? She now loves herself so much that she's turned down unworthy men and is planning solo travel.
The one looked over for promotions? She went and asked for a new job.
And the one who hated her job? She gave notice and is planning her own business.

Here's a video of one of them talking about her life now.

I am in AWE of every single one of these women. I am SO blessed to know, love and support them! They overcame their fears and self-doubt. They created new paths for life. And they did it together! That's why I run Sisterhoods like this and like the F*Midlife Club, and why I do small group leadership training at corporations. When we do the work together, we soar!

See, deep down we all yearn to be Empowered. We crave living bigger, more fulfilling lives. We were born to activate our dreams!

Why else were you born if not to be your full, vibrant, powerful self? Why else would you exist in your exact form if not to bring all of your gifts and passions to the world? Why else would you have survived the traumas and challenges of your life if not to now speak with courage?

If you also yearn for Empowerment, then do what these women did. Peel back the layers, go deep, uncover your truth, choose a new path, activate your desires. And if you need help, join one of my groups or email me. My work works and I'd be honored to support you.

Below is a video I taped for you to be empowered too. And TONIGHT, I’ll be live-streaming “Make Monday Happy” with more insight about becoming empowered for free on my business Facebook Page at 6:30 pm ET. (Click here to follow the page and get notification when I go live.)

You can become the Empowered soul you were born to be. And you deserve it.

“See” you tonight – Remember, 6:30 pm HERE for my live, short webinar “Make Monday Happy”.

XO,
Carin

PS – If you want to be on the waiting list for the next EMPOWERED group, email me. I will help you clarify your desires, get out of your fear, and move forward!!!