Become the Fabulous, Fierce, Feminine Woman you were born to be.
IT’S YOUR TIME
Do you ever feel like you have secret dreams inside of you? You feel like you're here for purpose, you want to be in your power, but you don't know where to start? Or maybe you don’t know your dreams at all. Maybe you just know that you feel lost and stuck, or depleted and you’re tired of living this way. Maybe you thought you'd be "further along" by this point of life?
You know you're here for something. You know life is meant to be lived!! You want to be that POWERFUL woman. Vibrant, free and alive again! A woman who makes a difference, who leaves an impact, who is unapologetically in love with herself and flirting with the universe in JOY. And you don't want 2020 to go by with another year - another new decade - where you said "I should have taken care of me."
You, dear Sister, are here for greatness. You are powerful and capable beyond measure.
Deep inside of you are long forgotten dreams and secret desires that would light you up and fulfill your soul so that you feel ALIVE and FREE if you would only live them... And that radiance would ignite your family, work, and life!
You were born to be an EMPOWERED woman. You just need tools to awaken your desires, uncover your purpose, and claim your power to courageously dance forward.
This is available to you. Right now. You can take control of your life and be the happiest, most radiant, empowered woman you know! And I can’t wait to show you how!
Welcome to EMPOWERED! The 4-month group mentorship with Women's Happiness Expert, Positive Psychology Purpose Coach and Divine Feminine Priestess, Carin Rockind, to live as Goddess you were born to be! EMPOWERED has 3 pillars that are the foundation of every happy woman:
- Pleasure: What lights you up and brings you joy? What are your deepest desires? How all archetypes of feminine power from the mermaid to the Wild Woman support you in being the Happiest woman you know. How do you "womanifest" all you desire?
- Purpose: Why you were born on earth at this time. Using Carin's proprietary science based process to discover your SuperWoman Strengths, deep wisdom and passions so that you make the impact you were born to and ultimately feel fulfilled!
- Power: Having the confidence and courage to boldly commit to yourself, your purpose, your loved ones, and your empowered path forward!
In EMPOWERED, you will uncover your heart’s deepest desires, discover your true life's purpose, shed old guilt and fear that holds you back, reclaim your pleasure, and your power, and claim your space as a fierce, fabulous, feminine woman.
In EMPOWERED women have discovered their purpose, written books, gone back to school, started businesses, left abusive marriages, found the loves of their lives, and more. In EMPOWERED, women SOAR.
Midlife can feel like a crisis or a catalyst: A crisis of lost and forgotten dreams you’ll never follow. A crisis of feeling stuck and held back and angered by the daily grind. Or, it can be a catalyst…. A catalyst for change, a catalyst for choice, and a catalyst to finally create life on YOUR terms.
Which will you choose?
It’s your time to choose you. Your time to uncover your dreams. Your time to speak your voice. Your time to write your future.
You’ve taken care of everyone else; life has run you. But now is your time to run life. If you don’t take control of your life, what will happen to you? If you don’t reclaim your joy, what will happen to your family? You must take back control and create the life you want to live so that you can fully support others.
You can have an empowered life – not despite your age – but because of it. Every scar offers wisdom. Every failure offers strength. Every pain can be used for purpose. You don’t need to “go back” to who you “used to be”. Rather, you must move forward with the grace, strength, courage and wisdom that you have now to be the woman you were BORN to be!
Forget the midlife, third-life or any other crisis! You are not “over the hill”! My friend, you OWN that hill. You’ve climbed that mountain and you’re now standing at the peak ready to roar, “I AM HERE.” Fierce, Feminine, Fabulous, and FREE. Look out world, here we come!
During this life-changing, four-month experience, you will finally rid yourself of the excuses, barriers, and misguided mind chatter that has held you back. I will teach you the tools you need to create the life you desire. I will guide you through the action steps you need to finally live your heart and soul desires. You will shift old patterns, blast through obstacles, make a declaration of your independence, and identify your purpose. And you will have the support and encouragement of a Sisterhood of phenomenal women to realize your dreams.
It’s your time, love. Decide now that 2020 is going to be YOUR year.
What is EMPOWERED?
EMPOWERED is more than a program. It is a sisterhood, a movement, and a declaration of strong, fierce women that we deserve to create the fulfilling lives we desire. Through individual and group coaching calls, live retreats, 15-page detailed and deep workbooks, and guided meditations, you will claim life as your own. You will make self-care a priority, realizing how much it benefits your family and your career. You will realize your hidden dreams and receive support in achieving them. You will walk away with the tools, confidence, and clarity you need to be happy and healthy in life.
In EMPOWERED, you will:
- PURGE old stories, habits, obstacles and excuses that have held you back. Good riddance!
- CLAIM your own happiness and once and for all, learn how to live life on your terms. Hello joy!
- DECLARE the vows by which you promise yourself to live going forward. YOU own your life!
- LOVE your uniqueness, gray hairs, tummy, eccentricity and all. Yes, you are gorgeous!
- CONNECT with a community of like-minded women who will be your support system and cheerleaders.
- ACT on your desires, as you’ve wanted to do for so long.
JOIN ME FOR 4 MONTHS OF MENTORSHIP
- Kick off! You will receive the first PurposeBook (workbook) on Thursday, January 23, to begin uncovering your truth.
- We will initiate ourselves into the sisterhood with a full day retreat in beautiful Miami Beach, a city of color and vibrancy and energy, the weekend of February 7 - 8, 2020!
- We will then meet virtually every other week as a group to go deeper into purpose, self-love and action toward your dreams.
- Every two weeks (every other Thursday, starting January 23), you’ll get exclusive EMPOWERED exercises in PurposeBooks that I’ve designed just for you! Based on the science of happiness, the spirit of divine feminine, and my real life experiences surviving domestic violence, divorce, armed robbery, step-parenting and falling in love again, you will get actionable tools and support.
- Every two weeks you'll have a live video call with your sisterhood and me, and in the weeks in between you'll have access to optional Q&A calls with your sisterhood and me.
- Throughout the program, you will have two 1:1 coaching sessions with me to dive even deeper into your personal desires, challenges, and path.
- You will have the support of other fabulous, purposeful women in a private online community.
- Finally, we will CELEBRATE with a grand finale retreat in Philadelphia, PA, the weekend of May 15 - 16, 2020, as you begin an exciting new chapter in your life! At this celebration, you will declare your dreams as your own, you will own your life story, you will state the rules of your next decade, and FINALLY see yourself as the beautiful, strong, capable and confident woman you were born to be.
The EMPOWERED Growth Process
EMPOWERED combines my expertise in Positive Psychology with my Divine Feminine training as an Initiated Priestess to teach you proven tools that will change your mindset, open your heart, and empower you to align your life to your soul’s desires.
Throughout our 4 months together, we will explore and own the 3 pillars of Women's Happiness:
I will guide you through my 4-step empowerment process:
- Nature: Know who you are, your authentic truth, and be her unapologetically
- Nurture: Discover what old stories and patterns have been holding you back and learn Carin's proven process to reclaim all past pain as purpose
- Choice: Make new empowered choices, including self-marriage vows
- Change: Create a path forward toward your biggest life and dreams
Through PurposeBooks (workbooks), group coaching calls, 1:1 mentorship, 24/7 sisterhood support, weekly meditations, and full-day retreats, you will transform your life.
Empowerment Process: Nature-Nurture-Choice-Change
- Nature: Know your core essence, identify what lights you up, and awaken your dormant dreams
- Nurture: Pinpoint and rid yourself of the fears, excuses and “shoulds” that have been holding you back. Rewrite your life narrative and become the Queen of your own story.
- Choice: Resolve that you are in control of your own life. Declare your independence and make intentional choices about your future.
- Change: Create healthy habits, design an action plan, and leave the program with steps that you have already begun to put into place.
Every two weeks you will receive a PurposeBook designed to follow the empowerment process. PurposeBooks are filled with proven exercises based in Positive Psychology and my expertise in life purpose and post-traumatic growth. PurposeBooks include templates, activities and journal prompts to move you forward!
Bi-Weekly Teaching Calls:
Every other Wednesday, starting January 29, from noon to 1:30 pm ET, we will have a group call that teaches you strategies to move past your fears and take action on creating the life you want. Calls will support the empowerment process, include a tutorial, and offer opportunity to receive and experience live coaching to move through your specific challenges. Topics include:
- Reaping the benefits of positivity
- Rewiring your brain’s limiting beliefs
- Rewriting your life story with you as the heroine
- Moving from “ I can’t” to “I can”
- Finding courage
- Setting healthy boundaries
- And so much more!
Bi-Weekly Q&A Calls:
Every other Wednesday, starting February 5, from noon to 1:00 pm ET, will be optional Q&A calls to get coaching and ask Carin anything you want.
Exclusive Online Community:
Women were never meant to do it all alone. Since the beginning of time, women have supported each other to accomplish goals and care for their families. Through this exclusive Facebook community for our Sisterhood, you’ll get support from like-minded women in achieving your deep desires. This 24/7 opportunity to connect with our community allows you to build strength and courage, and to move forward.
We will INITIATE ourselves into the sisterhood with a weekend retreat in Miami Beach the weekend of February 7 - 9, 2020! Here you will dive deep into your forgotten desires to become clear on how you want to feel, what you want to have, and who you were born to be. You will break through your core fears and create a path for moving forward.
We will CELEBRATE with a grand finale retreat in Philadelphia, PA, the weekend of May 15 - 17, 2020. At this celebration, you will claim your freedom, declare your dreams as your own, state the rules for the new you, and FINALLY see yourself as the beautiful, strong, capable and confident woman you were born to be.
Begin every week with intention and purpose as I guide you with recorded meditations to help you get centered, grounded, and aligned with your goals.
JOIN ME FOR 4 MONTHS OF MENTORSHIP THROUGH A FOUR-STEP EMPOWERMENT PROCESS NOT TAUGHT ANYWHERE ELSE!
Step 1: JOY – Fall In Love With Your True Nature
Reclaim what you really want! Our Step 1 PurposeBooks and group calls will inspire self-awareness, ignite passions, embrace beauty (inner and outer), awaken your desires, and support your vitality. You will become crystal clear about your true purpose and goals.
Step 2: FREEDOM – Release the Old Nurturing That Has Held You Back
Throughout your life, you have learned behaviors and thought patterns that serve you – and those that now keep you stuck. Our Step 2 PurposeBooks and calls allow you to pinpoint old fears, “shoulds,” and behavior patterns and turn them on their heads. I will teach you new resilient thinking skills that release old patterns, help you turn your prior pain into purpose, and empower you to re-write your life story as the heroine so that you can finally move forward.
Step 3: COURAGE – Make Intentional Life Choices
We are each born courageous, but we put our needs aside to care for others, which eventually leads to regret, shame, resentment, or depression. Our Step 3 PurposeBooks and calls awaken your courage, and teach you how to set boundaries, prioritize your needs and assert yourself. You will declare new choices.
Step 4: PURPOSE – Take Action And Change Your Life’s Trajectory
Realizing your dreams requires action. As the old saying goes, “No change… no change.” During the Step 4 PurposeBooks and calls, you will create an action plan and begin taking critical action steps toward your desired path. You will leave the program with concrete goals, a clear plan, and the tools to persevere forward with grit regardless of obstacles that may come.
This empowerment process will bring you everything you want in life. How do I know? Because I have done it. When I was married to my first husband, feeling lonely and scared, and grinding away at a corporate job that didn’t fill me, I thought my life was over. Many days, I would have rather died than exist like that. Then, I woke up and realized that I have control over my life. I figured out who I was, chose to leave my marriage, I began doing what lit me up, and I started following old dreams. I left my corporate marketing job to get my masters degree in Positive Psychology, the science of happiness, so that I could support women like you – and now I have a radio show and a chapter in a best-selling book, and I help women pursue their dreams every day. And to top it all off, I then met my true love and married him at 40.
I want to teach you how to fulfill that dream that has been buried deep down inside. How to get the love, life, and purpose-full career you’ve wanted. When I was desperate and seeking, I couldn’t find a program that was specifically for me. I had to figure it out on my own and as women, we’re not meant to do so. We need support. I’ve created EMPOWERED for you to get the support you need.. I’ve combined my expertise in positive psychology with my experience in fulfilling my purpose and designed a program specifically for you, a woman feeling that “midlife” burn.
EMPOWERED is for you if:
- You want to know your purpose and live it and don't know where to start or need accountability forward
- You feel like life is controlling you, like everyone else’s schedule and needs have come first and you want to regain control of life
- You know life is meant to be fun, free, and fulfilling and you need support to get there.
- You feel like something is missing – even if you can’t pinpoint what it is – and you know that life can be more.
- You don’t want to wake up 5 years from now still feeling STUCK.
- You have dreams inside that have been asleep for years and scream at you to be set free.
- You want a well integrated, balanced, and happy schedule that allows you to prioritize you.
- You won't let 2020 go by as "another year" of the same ol' because you know that how you start this decade is how the rest of your life will go!
- You are READY to make change in your life, ready to TAKE CHARGE of your life and live life on YOUR TERMS!
Time: EMPOWERED is a four-month commitment to self-growth that will likely kick off a lifetime of commitment to yourself. You will get out of the program what you put into it. With video calls every other week and optional Q&A calls on the intervening weeks, you have the opportunity for support weekly. Plus, the PurposeBooks allow for weekly self-study. I recommend you set aside 2 hours per week of alone, quiet time to do the PurposeBooks so that you use them thoroughly to take charge of life.
Energy: EMPOWERED requires an investment of energy – energy for growth, for healing, for connection, and for you to flourish. EMPOWERED will teach you to invest your energy and time first in yourself, so that you have more to give to others. This shift may be new for you, and it will ultimately save your life. You will fill your energetic cup so that you give from joy rather than from the depleted reserves.
My commitment to you: Once you join EMPOWERED, I will be your champion, your cheerleader, your support and coach for life. Throughout the 4 months, you will have access to me via the calls, retreats, and coaching sessions, as well as via text any time you wish. I read all of your PurposeBooks personally, and provide feedback so that you gain insight and wisdom into your true purpose and potential. My commitment to you is to be your mirror when you forget who you are, to believe in you when you forget to believe in yourself, and to lovingly guide you on this path. I will be with you every step of the way.
EMPOWERED is limited to only 10 women, so if you're ready to say YES to yourself and your future, sign up as soon as the doors open!
Why Work with Carin?
I grew up the youngest of three and my parents sometimes said they "got it right the third time." I was their "Perfect Child."
I did everything to be "Perfect" - all A's, cheerleading, student council, no smoking or drugs. I married my "Perfect" good-looking lawyer husband at 22 and moved into a big "perfect" house by 24.
But I was miserable in my perfect life. I felt lost. Stuck. Like I had no idea who I was. And I felt so guilty, and ashamed.
So I bravely left that marriage and perfect life at 26 because I wanted - NEEDED - to figure out what happiness was FOR ME.
I heard the word PURPOSE whispered by the Goddess.
So I went on a journey to figure out my purpose. I thought maybe I should change careers but I realized that wouldn't yet help. FIRST, I had to do the internal work - I had to get to know who I was, what lit me up, and ultimately, what legacy I wanted to leave on the world.
So I started volunteering with high school girls and other divorced women and was so HAPPY that I realized I am meant to be EVERY WOMAN'S CHEERLEADER.
Purpose matters because it's FULFILLMENT. It's ULTIMATE Happiness.
But then I was WAY too afraid to turn my purpose into a career. It was 15 years ago and I had never heard of coaching; and the only speakers I knew were Tony Robbins and Oprah and that felt impossible. Plus, I was afraid no one would like me. I'd fail, be rejected.
So I stayed stuck in fear, corporate golden handcuffs, and almost married another lawyer because I was SO afraid of failure, rejection, looking stupid, being humiliated, etc.
Sadly, I became so severely depressed that I couldn't look in the mirror. I got shingles at 34.
Then after 8 years of being stuck in FEAR, one night, a young man followed me into my condominium building, and pulled a GUN to my head.
I screamed and cried, begging for my life, sure I was about to DIE. I thanked G-d for my life, and then I heard a voice say “Oh no - you were put on earth for purpose and women need you."
In that moment, I promised that if I lived, I would pursue this purpose no matter what. Just then, the man took my purse and ran.
I then left my 6-figure VP corporate job to go back to grad school at UPenn for Positive Psychology. It cost me $60K in loans, and I went anyway.
My dad said, “That is the stupidest decision I've ever heard” and I BRAG doing it anyway.
I was 36 and FINALLY HAPPY.
Following my purpose was the best decision I've ever made. It led me to feel aligned in my soul, happy, at peace, excited every day. I get to do work I LOVE and look forward to the day. I get to make a difference and help people. And despite my fears about leaving my corporate salary, within a couple of years, I was making more than I did before.
It isn't always easy! I’ve failed many times!!! But I get back up and now, I get to coach HUNDREDS of women every year! I get to impact thousands of women on The PurposeGirl Podcast and through speaking on motivation, happiness, purpose and women's leadership to companies like AVON and Progressive Insurance.
Q: Will I really receive your personal support in the group?
A: Yes! I keep the group small intentionally so that I can work personally with each of you. I take great pride in knowing the intimate details of every single one of my clients' desires, needs, hopes, and fears, so that I can support you fully. You will receive 1:1 support from me on the group calls, during the retreats and via our private sessions.
Q: Will I really grow in a group?
A: YES! Women who have graduated from this program have overhauled their entire lives from standing in their confidence to standing up for what they need to getting the work and relationships they desire and starting businesses. Part of this tremendous growth comes BECAUSE you're in a group with like-hearted women who support you every step of the way.
Q: What if I have different needs than the other women?
A: Even better. Every single woman in the group brings her hopes and talents to the Sisterhood and it creates a magical mix. Together, we lift each other up and help each sister create what she wants in life.
Q: Why does it cost more than therapy?
A: Coaching costs more than therapy for a couple reasons. Many therapists take insurance and as a coach, I can't take insurance because I don't "diagnose" you with an illness. Rather, I identify your strengths and gifts and help you use them in the world. Also, my work works. You're not paying for a workbook; you're paying for results. I value my time and gifts and believe that we all deserve fair value for our value.
Q: What if I don't get along with the other women?
A: Good question, and I've never seen it happen. The women who are drawn to my work are compassionate, loving, supportive women who are ready to grow, and who want every other woman to grow too. The women in my program don't compete; they compliment each other. This may be new for you, as a lot of women tell me that they've had bad experiences in groups of women. Part of why I do this work is to create a new model of Sisterhood, to show us all what's possible. Women who have been freaked out about being in women's groups have made some of their best friends in these groups, and I bet you will too.
Q: What's the age range?
A: Women of all ages join the program. Age doesn't matter as much as readiness to live an empowered, happy and purposeful life. One 52-year old woman was afraid she'd be the oldest, but she actually had the "youngest" spirit and she inspired everyone to PLAY. Another 30-year old thought she may be the youngest, but her wisdom impacted her Sisters. You will fit in if you're ready to be the woman you've always wanted to be.
Q: Is it weird to be with total strangers?
A: Good question, but it's actually the opposite. Women consistently tell me that they're more able to share their true fears and old pain with women they DON'T know. There's no pressure to "keep up" or be "better." Plus, sometimes, we need people who aren't intimately involved in our lives to see us for who we are. By the end of the 4 months, the women have become confidants and best friends. This has happened every year and I know it will again.
Q: What if I don't want to share my personal life with the group?
A: Then EMPOWERED may not be for you. To grow, you need to get real about your life - the good, the bad, and the super challenging. This group works because women get real. When one woman shares her true experience, hearing others say, "Me too" is one of the most powerful healers on the planet.
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom” – ANAIS NIN
Please note: Once you register and make your first payment, refunds will not be given, and you are committing to continue with all payments according to the payment plan you have selected.